UA-182110992-2 How to Lose Weight While Loving Your Life - SoloMoms! Talk

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27th Dec 2021

How to Lose Weight While Loving Life w/Brooke Simonson

One of the biggest struggles solo moms face is managing their health. Specifically, they struggle with weight issues that can lead to massive health problems. That's the reason I interview so many experts in health and wellbeing. To give solo moms various tools and strategies they need to manage their health.

In this interview, Brooke Simonson shares her struggles with weight loss as well as strategies she developed for sustained weight maintenance. Brook talks about her 3 A's of successful weight loss in addition to how we can develop habits that put us on a path to getting and staying healthy.

Takeaways:

  • Shift your focus away from weight loss and move towards weight maintenance
  • Diet is not a one size fits all
  • Listen to your body to learn what may work for you
  • Use evidenced-based information to guide you towards your goals

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[jenn]: Sure,00:00:18,015 --> 00:00:23,855b[jenn]: could you tell us about you? We going to talk about nutrition and weight loss and allb00:00:24,015 --> 00:00:27 [jenn]: that fun stuff we would love to um, gossip about. 0:00:27,540 --> 00:00:28,540 [brooke_simonson]: Yes 00:00:29,935 --> 00:00:31,615 [jenn]: But first tell us about Brorke, 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:36,400 [brooke_simonson]: Yeah, of course. so, uh, like you said, I'm broke Sinfind. I'm a certified 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:41,360 [brooke_simonson]: nutrition coach and I specifically help people with weight loss. Um, and I 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:46,000 [brooke_simonson]: actually didn't start in this career. I started out being a teacher. I 00:00:46,160 --> 00:00:52,000

[brooke_simonson]: taught high school English for twelve years, and after college I started

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[brooke_simonson]: changes as well, so I just noticed I didn't have as much energy as I once

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[brooke_simonson]: and really just couldn't figure out what was going on. I thought. Oh, maybe

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[brooke_simonson]: a lot of us women do. We resort to different diets that we see, or I joined

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[brooke_simonson]: do a juice cleans, or I would read about some detoxs or take supplements. 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:55,440 [brooke_simonson]: would get upset with myself for not having better willpower or self 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:59,760 [brooke_simonson]: control, and for years and years iough, to honestly just couldn't figure 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:05,280

[brooke_simonson]: figure out what was going on with me and how to get back to looking and

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[brooke_simonson]: long term, losing weight health. I read a lot of books, tons of scholarly

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[brooke_simonson]: nutrition coach and really was just doing it more for my own knowledge. I

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[brooke_simonson]: as possible, and then I started using myself as a guinea pig and trying

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[brooke_simonson]: about that, but that's really the critical piece of. There's so many sort

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[brooke_simonson]: the rules of these strict diet or the habit. Long term really comes down to

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[brooke_simonson]: you'll be able to sustain. 00:03:49,135 --> 00:03:52,735 [jenn]: right, Yeah, Yeah, for sure. thank you for sharing with us 00:03:52,420 --> 00:03:53,420

simonson]: Yeah,:

[jenn]: lead us the new careers. 00:04:02,700 --> 00:04:03,700 [brooke_simonson]: Yeah, exactly. 00:04:04,340 --> 00:04:05,340 [brooke_simonson]: I know. 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:10,000 [brooke_simonson]: I, I lived in at New York City at the time when I was a teacher and then my 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:15,440 [brooke_simonson]: husband and I moving to California to be closer to family, so it' kind of 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:19,280

in terms of a new state. And:

[brooke_simonson]: have for nutrition and coaching and help other people have the same success 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:33,520 [brooke_simonson]: I had, so it was kind of a perfect time to do that career change. But yeah, 00:04:33,460 --> 00:04:34,460 [brooke_simonson]: I definitely 00:04:34,275 --> 00:04:35,275 [jenn]: right, 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:39,040

[brooke_simonson]: think a lot of people who end up doing some type of pibbot in their lives

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[jenn]: well, I can tell you. Um, it's no surprise that I'm one of those women who have gone 00:04:52,735 --> 00:04:59,055 [jenn]: through different iteration of you know weight management weight loss, our weight 00:04:58,835 --> 00:04:59,835 [jenn]: control,

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[jenn]: fine by me, but I looked fresh and young and I felt energeized 00:06:12,515 --> 00:06:13,515 [jenn]: but 00:06:14,495 --> 00:06:15,935. [jenn]: I couldn't sustain that, 00:06:17,135 --> 00:06:23,935 [jenn]: you know, lasted for about eight months and I said okay, I'm just going to relax and I 00:06:24,095 --> 00:06:25,775 [jenn]: relaxed and so did my body.

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00:06:34,415 --> 00:06:36,575 [jenn]: I'm sorry. I lost my thought. You go ahead and

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[brooke_simonson]: I think which, 00:06:40,175 --> 00:06:41,695 [jenn]: but to talk about, Yeah,

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[brooke_simonson]: when we're doing the juice thing. We're getting more nutrients from like

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00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:36,480 [brooke_simonson]: that has to happen through a juice bath switching, like you said your 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:42,320[brooke_simonson]: mindset, and thinking, how can I start incorporating more nutrient dense 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:47,120

get those same results and I:

[brooke_simonson]: modifications that are going to be able to stick with me forever.

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[jenn]: how how long it took to get here 00:08:26,495 --> 00:08:28,655 [jenn]: and and try to develop a more long term 00:08:29,935 --> 00:08:31,215 [jenn]: plan for your body

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[jenn]: That makes sense. 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:33,680 [brooke_simonson]: I think. yes. a hundred 00:08:33,555 --> 00:08:34,555 [jenn]: Yeah, 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,680

[brooke_simonson]: percent. you said it very well. I think we're living in this immediate

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00:08:45,755 --> 00:08:46,755 [jenn]: two hours sometimes, 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:50,400

[brooke_simonson]: very two hours. Exactly. We still don't understand how that happens, but

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00:08:55,540 --> 00:08:56,540 [brooke_simonson]: that's fine, right. 00:08:56,115 --> 00:08:57,[jenn]: yes, 00:08:56,480 --> 00:09:00,080 [brooke_simonson]: We're human. We want things to happen quickly for us, but really, 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:04,960 [brooke_simonson]: if long term habit change is something you're interested in in making this 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:09,840 [brooke_simonson]: more of a lifestyle rather than being in this yoyo diet pattern, then 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:16,560 [brooke_simonson]: patience is key, and I like to tell my clients to kind of visualize it as 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,000 [brooke_simonson]: if you're building a house or a wall brick by brick. 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:25,440 [brooke_simonson]: It happens slowly, but then once you get every brick in place, you have 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:31,200 [brooke_simonson]: this sturdy foundation and it's not going to happen overnight. But what? 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:38,160[brooke_simonson]: It's so much more worthwhile to do the slow gradual changes, and to see the 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:43,840

ck vix. And then what happens:

[brooke_simonson]: targets of these diass and these juice cleans, and things, is that

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00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,040 [brooke_simonson]: cool. Tell me more about that and then they'll say Well I lost it all, But 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:09,920 [brooke_simonson]: then I gave back twenty five or thirty, so sometimes these 00:10:09,955 --> 00:10:10,955

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[brooke_simonson]: we end up gaing back that weight, and possibly even more when we stopped 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:24,800 [brooke_simonson]: following the strict rules, which is just problematic, and there's research 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:28,480

[brooke_simonson]: that suggests. I mean you just kind of throw your body out of whack and

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[jenn]: yes, 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:38,960 [brooke_simonson]: off that roller coaster as soon as possible. 00:10:41,695 --> 00:10:47,295 jenn]: yes, Yes, For sure. Yeah, I. I. I agree, and I've experienced that and I've thought 00:10:47,535 --> 00:10:53,375 [jenn]: about. I thought through that. so I. I appreciate you. you know, confirming that idea 00:10:53,435 --> 00:10:54,435 [jenn]: in my mind. 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:55,680 [brooke_simonson]: Yeah, you are a spot on. 00:10:55,035 --> 00:10:56,035 [jenn]: The other thing. 00:10:58,415 --> 00:11:04,655 jenn]: The other thing you mentioned was how we tend to cause. we watch someone you know talk 00:11:04,895 --> 00:11:10,335 [jenn]: about their diet, or you know, read a plan and think. Oh, my God, if it, if it does 00:11:10,495 --> 00:11:14,975

[jenn]: that for them, it must do it for me. It must be able to do it for me and then we try

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00:11:18,975 --> 00:11:21,135 [jenn]: we are not them. I'm not you, 00:11:21,300 --> 00:11:22,300 [brooke_simonson]: Yeah, 00:11:21,775 --> 00:11:26,975

't respond the same way yours:

00:11:31,775 --> 00:11:32,815 [jenn]: learn to 00:11:33,935 --> 00:11:34,975

[jenn]: listen to our body,:

00:11:37,680 --> 00:11:43,760 [brooke_simonson]: yeah, uh, I think it can be so enticing, especially if it's a close friend, 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:48,000 [brooke_simonson]: or you know somebody really tracks, and they let's go back to ▁quito. Maybe 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:52,560 [brooke_simonson]: they did lose twenty pounds, doingquito, but sometimes you may see their 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:56,000 [brooke_simonson]: initial excitement in their Facebook post or whatever it is they're doing, 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:57,680

ou may not see the aftermath,:

[jenn]: Mhm, 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,680 [brooke_simonson]: So typically people aren't going to pop 00:11:59,315 --> 00:12:00,315 [jenn]: right, 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:04,800

[brooke_simonson]: back on and post. Oh, actually I gained all the weight back. or actually,

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[jenn]: mhm, 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,840 [brooke_simonson]: so I would keep that in mind If somebody seems like they're getting 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:22,080 [brooke_simonson]: miraculous results. It may be too good to be true, and exactly as you 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:26,960 [brooke_simonson]: stated, it may not be sustainable for you. So one thing I would always look 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:28,800 [brooke_simonson]: for in a new

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[jenn]: yes, 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:05,920 [brooke_simonson]: and one size. That's all. eating patterns don't work. because everybody 00:13:06,435 --> 00:13:07,435 [jenn]: right,

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[brooke_simonson]: perfect diet would be the answer, And that's where 00:13:19,075 --> 00:13:20,075 [jenn]: yeah, 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:24,960 [brooke_simonson]: we really get tripped up, Is we? We are fed that idea that you have to do 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:24,960

[brooke_simonson]: we really get tripped up, Is we? We are fed that idea that you have to do

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[brooke_simonson]: you and it's just a process of figuring that out and it's a lot simpler

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[brooke_simonson]: there and then tuning in Of how do I feel is just working. Is it not

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00:13:50,435 --> 00:13:51,435 [jenn]: five, 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:55,600 [brooke_simonson]: discovery process and the more self aware you are, the more empowered you

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[jenn]: something in there that I can have, 00:14:13,780 --> 00:14:14,780 [brooke_simonson]: right. 00:14:14,255 --> 00:14:20,415 [jenn]: or you know I need in another way, and it' the same way. I think you're saying how we 00:14:21,215 --> 00:14:22,735 [jenn]: we approach eating 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:24,720 [brooke_simonson]: Yeah, that's such a great analogy.

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[brooke_simonson]: Actually, Yeah, to think of, you know how you 00:14:26,595 - 00:14:27,595

[jenn]: yeah,:

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[brooke_simonson]: Yeah, I think one of the biggest myths that perpetuates our culture is that 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:15,920 [brooke_simonson]: the focus. if you want to lose weight, it should be on weight loss. But 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:21,440 [brooke_simonson]: really you've got to shift your focus to weight maintenance. And are you00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:22,640

going to be able to maintain:

[jenn]: H, Hm, 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:25,760 [brooke_simonson]: whatever you're doing long term, So I like to 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:31,200 [brooke_simonson]: use what I call the hundred year test. So before you start something new, 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:35,760

[brooke_simonson]: kind of assess it. What am I going to be doing here? How is this person?

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[brooke_simonson]: if the answer is no, then you need to understand that any success you get

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00:16:10,100 --> 00:16:11,100 [brooke_simonson]: work 00:16:10,195 --> 00:16:11,195

[jenn]: Mhm, Mhm,:

[brooke_simonson]: work for a woman in her forties with three children. Um, so I just think

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[jenn]: right, 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:25,440 [brooke_simonson]: have to be sure there's some level of personalization. Make sure there’s 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:29,280

[brooke_simonson]: some type of accountability built into the program Because that's where a

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[brooke_simonson]: They say two things. They want to lose weight, so okay, that's why they're

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00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:45,040 [brooke_simonson]: they've tried all the things years past, but

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[brooke_simonson]: now they're ready to show up from those for themselves and they know that 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:53,680 [brooke_simonson]: the best way to do that is to have kind of a coacher cheerleader in their 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:58,800 [brooke_simonson]: corner guiding them and supporting men every step of the way. Um, so yeah, 00:16:58,780 --> 00:16:59,780 [brooke_simonson]: I'd say you know 00:16:59,555 --> 00:17:00,555

[jenn]: yeah,:

[brooke_simonson]: everybody. That's also a myth. Some people do better with more protein and 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:19,040 [brooke_simonson]: you know more fibre. It's just really about listening to your body and 00:17:19,100 --> 00:17:20,100 [brooke_simonson]: learning

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00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:38,160 [brooke_simonson]: eat all fruits of vegetables and all whole grains, and you've never done 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:40,640 [brooke_simonson]: that before, you're probably not gonna 00:17:40,195 --> 00:17:41,195 [jenn]: right, 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,360 [brooke_simonson]: feel that good right. So it's just then 00:17:43,075 --> 00:17:44,075 [jenn]: yeah, 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:47,360 [brooke_simonson]: tuning into your body and thinking Okay, Maybe this is too much. You know 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:52,480

[brooke_simonson]: how can I kind of back pedle a little bit and go slower. Um, but I think

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[brooke_simonson]: information to guide you towards your goals. So you're not following 00:18:07,075 --> 00:18:08,075 [jenn]: Mhm, 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,280

[brooke_simonson]: something that somebody just made up be cause they decided

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00:18:31,455 --> 00:18:35,775 [jenn]: with with it personally, and then they decided to share it as gospel, 00:18:35,700 --> 00:18:36,700 [brooke_simonson]: Yes, 00:18:36,255 --> 00:18:41,295 [jenn]: and I think that's what happened and and the other thing I think from what I'm seeing 00:18:41,455 --> 00:18:47,055 [jenn]: is that most of these diets are developed. By men, you know men with six packs and you 00:18:47,135 --> 00:18:53,055

age, or you know a menopause,:

[jenn]: yeah, 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,760 [brooke_simonson]: too is done on men. I mean it's it's tough 00:19:01,315 --> 00:19:02,315 [jenn]: yeah, 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:06,320

[brooke_simonson]: to find sometimes what works best for women. I think we're getting closer

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[brooke_simonson]: works for you. 00:19:19,615 --> 00:19:22,095 [jenn]: right, Yeah, exactly, thank you very much. 00:19:21,700 --> 00:19:22,700 [brooke_simonson]: Yeah, 00:19:23,135 > 00:19:28 [jenn]: Okay. so tell us about the three. A approach for no nonsense00:19:29,535 00:19:32,335 [jenn]: and sustainable weight loss. Like that word, 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:36,880

Say sustainable long terms so:

[brooke_simonson]: Attitude is critical. Your mindset about the weight loss. You know you said 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:19,760 [brooke_simonson]: that's probably the most important piece, really, and a lot of these 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:23,680 [brooke_simonson]: restrictive diets, or you know, when you're given a list of rules to 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:28,320 [brooke_simonson]: follow, they're not taking into account the mindset you're coming from and

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[brooke_simonson]: of these 00:20:39,360 --> 00:20:43,440 [brooke_simonson]: things that we've maybe thought for many years when we've been a part of 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:49,440

t for the. Long term success,:

00:21:03,715 --> 00:21:04,715 [jenn]: Mhm, 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:08,800 [brooke_simonson]: five percent. Research suggests so even you know, just making those 00:21:08,835 --> 00:21:09,835 [jenn]: yeah, okay, 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:13,920 [brooke_simonson]: initial habit changes until their a way of life. Having accountability can 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,880

[brooke_simonson]: be really critical, So awareness, attitude and

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[brooke_simonson]: Oh man, I think my health always, My health. health is wealth, and 00:21:44,500 --> 00:21:45,500 [brooke_simonson]: even if you 00:21:45,155 --> 00:21:46,155 [jenn]: Mhm, 00:21:45,360 --> 00:21:49,760 [brooke_simonson]: amass all the riches in the world, it means nothing if you don't have Vgr 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,360

le day I'm grateful for that.:

[jenn]: you know. talk to you. 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,480 [brooke_simonson]: Of course. Yeah, I would say the best place to go for more information 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,960

The Health Investment Dot com:

[brooke_simonson]: on Instigram, and very active on that platform, he'll free to send me a 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:22,480 [brooke_simonson]: message or just say I heard you, or ask me a follow up question. Find me 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,480 [brooke_simonson]: there at the health investment as well, 00:22:26,975 --> 00:22:30,415 [jenn]: okay, okay, all right, and we'll put that in the show out so people could get in touch 00:22:30,195 --> 00:22:31,195

[jenn]: with:

[brooke_simonson]: More. Most people come to me for the looking good part, that kind of front 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,920 [brooke_simonson]: center in their brain, But then what really 00:22:59,715 --> 00:23:00,715 [jenn]: Mhm, 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:04,640 [brooke_simonson]: ends up happening is when you feel good. That's the change that everybody 00:23:04,275 --> 00:23:05,275 [jenn]: yeah, 00:23:05,420 --> 00:23:06,420 [brooke_simonson]: loves the most. 00:23:08,415 --> 00:23:09,615 [jenn]: yeah, yeah, definitely. 00:23:10,815 --> 00:23:11,935 [jenn]: so anything else? 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:16,080 [brooke_simonson]: I mean, I think we covered a lot. I just would encourage listeners to reach 00:23:15,795 --> 00:23:16,795 [jenn]: Okay? 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:20,960 [brooke_simonson]: out to me. I love people will pop into my Ingram messages and say sorry to 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,400 [brooke_simonson]: bother you. and I say no. No, it's never bother. That's the fun part of 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,200

for me is meeting the people:

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